Elopement Etiquette Guide: A Simple and Stress-Free Celebration!

So, you’re thinking of skipping the big wedding shindig and going for something a bit more intimate – eloping! Good on you! Now, let’s talk about some laid-back and easy-to-follow etiquette to make your elopement a breeze.

Inviting Guests – Or Not:

• Keep it Simple: If you want a chill vibe, consider inviting only those who truly matter to you. Less fuss, more love.
• Just the Two of You: Alternatively, throw tradition out the window and keep it super intimate with just you and your partner. It’s your day – do it your way.

Communicating with Family:

• Honesty is the Best Policy: Be upfront with your family about your elopement plans. Share your excitement and reassure them that they still hold a special place in your heart.
• Virtual Cheers: If your folks can’t make it, think about video calls or sharing a recording afterward. It’s a tech-savvy way to keep everyone in the loop!

Celebrating with Loved Ones:

• Low-Key Get-Together: Consider a simple post-elopement get-together with close friends and family. No need for a grand party – just a cozy gathering to share the love!
• Share Your Joy: After the elopement, share some pics and stories. It’s like bringing your loved ones along on your adventure, even if they weren’t physically there.

Wedding Announcements:

• Have Fun with It: Make your announcement light-hearted and fun. Share a cute photo or a short video on social media – let the world know you’ve tied the knot!
• Spread the Love: Use your announcement as a chance to spread some love and good vibes.

Dress Code – or No Code:

• Wear What Feels Right: Forget about traditional wedding attire if it’s not your thing. Wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and fabulous.
• Express Yourself: It’s your moment, so express your style however you want.

Opt for an Officiant or Go DIY:

• Personal Touch: If you want an officiant, go for it! Find someone who gets you both. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous, DIY your vows. No rules here!
• Speak from the Heart: The most important thing is that your vows are genuine and heartfelt.

Capture the Moments:

• DIY or Pro: Decide if you want a pro photographer or if you’re happy with some DIY photos. Phones take great pics, but if you want those breathtaking, professionally captured moments, consider reaching out to a seasoned wedding and elopement photographer (hint: like me!) to ensure your memories are as stunning as your love story. (If you’re interested with my work, don’t hesitate to reach out to me at @zettelphoto )
• Memories Last Forever: Whether pro or amateur, the photos will be a sweet reminder of your special day!

Cherish the Moment:

• Stay Present: Finally, on the big day, stay in the moment. Take it all in, enjoy the love, and soak up every second of your elopement adventure! Good luck!

Conclusion:

Eloping is all about keeping it real and easy. Follow these simple tips, and your elopement will be a stress-free celebration that’s totally you. If you want those breathtaking moments captured professionally, consider having a seasoned wedding and elopement photographer (hey, that could be me!) to ensure your memories are beautifully preserved. Here’s to love, laughter, and your awesome elopement journey!

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